People are like that .... They need to make their own worst experiences universal. It gives them a kind of support.’ And who can blame them? It is just infuriating to argue with someone like that; because of an experience that has denied them their humanity, they go around denying another kind of humanity in others, which is the truth of human variety -- it stands alongside our sameness. John Irving
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Despite the fact that people are not like that at all, there is something to be said for the idea that people need to make their own worst experiences universal. It gives them a kind of support.

Source: The Hotel New Hampshire

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